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WEDNESDAY, APRIL 26, 2023 | 9:00AM

Show Notes

This week on The D Spot, we converse with Saint and Monique about the journey of their relationship. Through diligent effort and commitment, they sustain their romance with communication and an unwavering bond. Tune in to hear how they confront their difficulties, glean insight into how they navigate their partnership, and learn how they assist one another in addressing past trauma.

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key moments

00:10 Welcome Jon Deam
00:31 The Difference Between a Psychologist and a Psychiatrist
01:29
What Made Dr. Deam Choose to be a Psychiatrist?
02:28 Dana Reads a Quote From Jon’s Website
03:12 Where DId Jon’s View of Mental Health Come From?
04:18 Breaking The Stigma and Introducing New Views to the Mental Health World
06:31 Why Arn’t More Psychiatrists Adopting This Approach?
07:13 Medication and Mental Health
08:26 Addressing Your Mental Health with Talk Therapy
09:18 “I Don’t Need Medical Management, Why Does My Partner?”
10:22
How do I Tell my Partner THat I Need Medical Help, and How is it Going to Effect Our Relationship?
12:01 No One Walked into My Office to Stay the Same or Get Worse
13:12 Mary Realized that she liked how she felt on Prozac
14:39 You Can Be Your Partner’s Advocate
15:53 How Do I Tell My Partner I Think They Need Help?
18:05 Your Partner May Be More Aware of What is Happening to You Than Yourself
19:09 “I’m Going to Lend You My Hope Until You Have it Yourself”
20:17 Covid-19 and the Rise of Substance Abuse
22:01 Relationships, Addiction, and Coping Skills
22:55 “If You Hold Your Breath Long Enough, You Eventually Gotta Breathe”
24:01 The Psychiatric Effects of Addiction
26:52 Your Partner is Not Choosing Their Addiction Over You
27:03 Shame Spirals
27:57 Effects of Developing Unhealthy Coping Skills at a Young Age
29:20 How do I Explain my Addiction to my Partner?
31:01 There is No Miricle Cure
32:25
Addressing the Enabler
33:22 Addiction Might be Covering Up Deeper Issues
36:13 Dr. Deam’s Final Thoughts

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Dr. Dana McNeil

PsyD, LMFT

Anthony Saint Thomas
& Monique Dupree

Amazing Couple

Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We would like to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.