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WEDNESDAY, JUNE 21st, 2023 | 9:00AM

Show Notes

In this insightful episode of The D Spot, Dr. Dana sits down with Gordon Brewer, a therapist and ordained clergyman from the bible belt to discuss a wide range of topics. From exploring what it means to be a Deacon in the Episcopal Church, to delving into issues surrounding sex and pornography addiction, this conversation is packed with valuable insights. They also talk about how being an important member of the church and being a therapist can sometimes clash, and how focusing on what couples have in common can be more helpful than focusing on their differences. Whether you’re curious about these topics or looking for some practical advice, this video has something for everyone. So grab a cup of tea and join us for this fascinating conversation! Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe for more amazing content like this.

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key moments

02:26 What Does it Mean to Be an Ordained Clergy in the Episcopal Church?
04:14 What Came First, the Deacon or the Therapist?
04:51 Does Being an Important Member of The Church and Being a Therapist Ever Clash?
06:21 Are There Many Couple’s That Struggle Because of a Difference in Religion?
07:49 Why Does One Partner Feel Threatened When The Other Has A Differing Set of Beliefs?
10:16 Can You Be Curious Vs. Furious?
12:01 Focusing on What Couples Have in Common Before Focusing on What They Don’t
13:46 Two Religions, One Child
15:42 We Are The Family of Our Own Choices Now
16:53 Sex and Pornography Addiction
20:32 Signs You Might Be Addicted to Sex or Pornography
22:07 How Do I Address My Partner’s Porn Addiction?
23:17 Establishing Your Boundaries & Deal Breakers
25:02 Finding Support Within A Community
28:25 Healing Your Trauma with Old Communities
33:57 Dana Reads A Quote From Gordon Brewer’s Website
37:21 You Can Find Help Within People and Communities of Different Walks of Life
40:40 Where Can You Find Gordon Brewer?

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Dr. Dana McNeil

PsyD, LMFT

Gordon Brewer

M.Ed., LMFT

Thanks for listening to The D Spot. We would like to remind you that the content of this podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy. While we strive to provide valuable insights and information, this podcast does not constitute or replace therapy sessions with a qualified mental health professional. If you are in need of mental health support, please seek the advice of a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.